Is Closure Necessary For Every Failed Relationship? It’s tough falling out with someone who meant so much to you at one time. This person could’ve been a friend, a family member, or a significant other. Regardless of their title in your life, they left a huge impact on you. Every relationship we have in our lives shapes us into a new person whether it’s big or small. This experience changes the way we approach people who remind us of them, it changes how we interact with others, and even how we love others.
Falling out of connections can be a positive or negative change. It’s important to realize every experience with another person in our life is a lesson. It’s up to us to learn the lesson and improve the way we think and treat others. We can’t let negative experiences taint our outlook on future experiences. It’s important for us to learn hard lessons in life. If we don’t learn the hard way we are missing out on lessons that we need.
So how do we get closure? Is closure even necessary? Getting closure from another person can be extremely beneficial for your mental. To correctly receive closure is to explain what the effects of their actions had on each other followed by forgiveness. It’s easy to think that the way you feel is the way everyone else should feel. It’s easy to feel that the way you approach situations is the way everyone else should as well.
To mature in life you have to realize every person has their own love language and communication style. We express ourselves in different ways. Just because you express yourself differently from another person doesn’t make either of you wrong or right. We are all different by nature. When receiving closure this is the most important thing to realize. The break of the relationship is usually caused by the difference in expression. Make peace with it and move on. Forgiveness is necessary for your own healing. Let go of the heavy weight and baggage. Realize that this lesson has many benefits that your future self will be thankful for learning.
So, what if the person the relationship failed with doesn’t want closure?What to do if you can’t receive closure? You can always accept the end of a connection on your own. Understand that both of you have your own sides of the stories. The relationship carried positives and negatives. They hurt and healed you in ways you could’ve never imagined. You don’t need a major falling out to walk away from a connection. A lot of times when a bond is broken, it’s for the best. Heal and forgive on your own. Your true destiny awaits you.
Here’s a great think piece to check out: https://globalnews.ca/news/3527490/5-reasons-why-you-still-cant-get-over-your-ex/